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		<title>by: dookie</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-21455</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 07:58:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>hmmm... i go out only with one thing on my mind, yet... guys are so shy or only reciprocate when drunk.

maybe cos this is asia,
maybe cos i'm not as skinny as their ex-gfs.


:P

-26/girl/singapore</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hmmm&#8230; i go out only with one thing on my mind, yet&#8230; guys are so shy or only reciprocate when drunk.</p>
<p>maybe cos this is asia,<br />
maybe cos i&#8217;m not as skinny as their ex-gfs.</p>
<p>:P</p>
<p>-26/girl/singapore
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		<title>by: Larisa</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-2600</link>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Nov 2006 15:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-2600</guid>
					<description>The Give up Girls were Dark matted for me until now, and as per your statistics 90% of them ! A serious thought need to be given. I think I should start with spreadin the message like you… Hopefully the  may come down.

Larisa
Don Lapre is da Man
larisa@larisajoyreilly.com
www.larisajoyreilly.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Give up Girls were Dark matted for me until now, and as per your statistics 90% of them ! A serious thought need to be given. I think I should start with spreadin the message like you… Hopefully the  may come down.</p>
<p>Larisa<br />
Don Lapre is da Man<br />
<a href="mailto:larisa@larisajoyreilly.com">larisa@larisajoyreilly.com</a><br />
<a href='http://www.larisajoyreilly.com' rel='nofollow'>www.larisajoyreilly.com</a>
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		<title>by: bonerattack8</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-869</link>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Aug 2006 20:51:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-869</guid>
					<description>there seems to be some confusion among the readers about the difference between having given up on relationships/casual sex and not liking getting hit on in unwanted ways and innapropriate situations. If someone approaches you at a bar or club at least be nice to them even if you're not interested because just by being in such a situation you're saying &quot;I'm probably here to meet people so walking in the door was an agreement to maybe be approached.&quot; Not saying take shit from every drunk guy, but you understand bars are an acceptable situation. When it's just a woman alone with a house full of movers, even if you find the guy attractive, that is NOT an acceptable time to approach a woman. It's akward and creepy, and if guys don't see that you haven't really tried understanding what being a woman in the world is like. 
Also, if you gotta be in some kind of &quot;serious relationship&quot; to fuck, it's mad easy to become a give-up girl and let's face it feminism hasn't done its work that well, many women are still hung up on that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>there seems to be some confusion among the readers about the difference between having given up on relationships/casual sex and not liking getting hit on in unwanted ways and innapropriate situations. If someone approaches you at a bar or club at least be nice to them even if you&#8217;re not interested because just by being in such a situation you&#8217;re saying &#8220;I&#8217;m probably here to meet people so walking in the door was an agreement to maybe be approached.&#8221; Not saying take shit from every drunk guy, but you understand bars are an acceptable situation. When it&#8217;s just a woman alone with a house full of movers, even if you find the guy attractive, that is NOT an acceptable time to approach a woman. It&#8217;s akward and creepy, and if guys don&#8217;t see that you haven&#8217;t really tried understanding what being a woman in the world is like.<br />
Also, if you gotta be in some kind of &#8220;serious relationship&#8221; to fuck, it&#8217;s mad easy to become a give-up girl and let&#8217;s face it feminism hasn&#8217;t done its work that well, many women are still hung up on that.
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		<title>by: leelee</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-621</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Aug 2006 22:19:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-621</guid>
					<description>look, girls are not like guys, ok, shit! you should know this. if you are trying to get a girl, apparantly a give up girl(that's why you are so angry at them) just make a public access tv show where you are a mime but you allow yourself to talk. and then talk about the give up girl while making people call in for free apples. that should make them come crawling out of their caves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>look, girls are not like guys, ok, shit! you should know this. if you are trying to get a girl, apparantly a give up girl(that&#8217;s why you are so angry at them) just make a public access tv show where you are a mime but you allow yourself to talk. and then talk about the give up girl while making people call in for free apples. that should make them come crawling out of their caves.
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		<title>by: jay</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-475</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jul 2006 02:48:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-475</guid>
					<description>i am a give-up girl. i mostly mope about not meeting guys. i can't talk to strangers when i go to bars and liking guys i already know is problematic. having low self esteem and getting cat called at on the street by men twice my age is really confusing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i am a give-up girl. i mostly mope about not meeting guys. i can&#8217;t talk to strangers when i go to bars and liking guys i already know is problematic. having low self esteem and getting cat called at on the street by men twice my age is really confusing.
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		<title>by: blondegirl (but never a give-up girl)</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-388</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jun 2006 06:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-388</guid>
					<description>Well, I love to go out. I don't mind when guys hit on me, either- IF they are intelligent about it. The problem is, 99.9% DO act like the lame guy in the open collared shirt. Why they think that approach will work is beyond me. Maybe that should be the next question asked, eh?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I love to go out. I don&#8217;t mind when guys hit on me, either- IF they are intelligent about it. The problem is, 99.9% DO act like the lame guy in the open collared shirt. Why they think that approach will work is beyond me. Maybe that should be the next question asked, eh?
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		<title>by: Adrian</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-387</link>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jun 2006 05:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>&quot;he's not my type&quot; are the worst 4.5 words to ever exist in conjunction with eachother.

I'd also like to denounce all those chicks who hang out at bars and/or clubs ALL THE TIME, yet turn down ALL THE GUYS. ALL THE TIME.
They're usually fat.
They usually also try to stop their attractive female friends from getting laid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;he&#8217;s not my type&#8221; are the worst 4.5 words to ever exist in conjunction with eachother.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d also like to denounce all those chicks who hang out at bars and/or clubs ALL THE TIME, yet turn down ALL THE GUYS. ALL THE TIME.<br />
They&#8217;re usually fat.<br />
They usually also try to stop their attractive female friends from getting laid.
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		<title>by: poster Give-Up Girl</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-386</link>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jun 2006 15:49:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-386</guid>
					<description>Given-upest Girl of Give-Up Girls right here. Yeah its inexplicable and I, being blessed with the ability to step away and examine myself in minute detail, don't even understand how I can simultaneously hold out for Mr./Ms. Right so hardcore that I will at this trajectory die as said old hagey cat lady. A lot of the time, its just because my life is full and satisfying, at times even complacent, and I don't have the will, desire or X megatons of energy to find and sustain involvement on a level equal to the intensity of the rest of my existence. And of course, to find something less intense would just be boring and unsatisfying (Mr. Right vs. Mr. Right Now). 

THe strangest phenomenon I've experienced, is as soon as I made the conscious decision to stop looking, trying or even considering dating/romance/casual sex and started paying for porn, all these suitors showed up. A hot bike messenger (which i would have really been into), a Ninja (not kidding. not even a little. I passed up an effing NINJA), and several others. So what's up with that huh? The girl that has passed the point of desperation and thrown in the towel is the hottest commodity in Chicago right now. And yes, I do have good self image, and don't want prince/ss charming per se, just somebody worthy (whatever that means) who wants to stick around for a while. And screw like bunnies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Given-upest Girl of Give-Up Girls right here. Yeah its inexplicable and I, being blessed with the ability to step away and examine myself in minute detail, don&#8217;t even understand how I can simultaneously hold out for Mr./Ms. Right so hardcore that I will at this trajectory die as said old hagey cat lady. A lot of the time, its just because my life is full and satisfying, at times even complacent, and I don&#8217;t have the will, desire or X megatons of energy to find and sustain involvement on a level equal to the intensity of the rest of my existence. And of course, to find something less intense would just be boring and unsatisfying (Mr. Right vs. Mr. Right Now). </p>
<p>THe strangest phenomenon I&#8217;ve experienced, is as soon as I made the conscious decision to stop looking, trying or even considering dating/romance/casual sex and started paying for porn, all these suitors showed up. A hot bike messenger (which i would have really been into), a Ninja (not kidding. not even a little. I passed up an effing NINJA), and several others. So what&#8217;s up with that huh? The girl that has passed the point of desperation and thrown in the towel is the hottest commodity in Chicago right now. And yes, I do have good self image, and don&#8217;t want prince/ss charming per se, just somebody worthy (whatever that means) who wants to stick around for a while. And screw like bunnies.
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		<title>by: Ooilee</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-380</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jun 2006 14:19:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-380</guid>
					<description>I just encountered an illustritive example of the give-up girl.

I was helping a female aquaintance move.  She's been single for a long time, and not a lesbian to my knowlege, but she was pretty fat by conventional standards, which I'm guessing made dating harder.

She'd actually hired movers, so she and I just hung out, watching them pack, and threw a few delicate things into my car.  She indicated one young man among the movers, a 20ish guy from Ecuador.  Young, good looking, in good shape from moving.

&quot;He was hitting on me.&quot; she said.

&quot;Oh?&quot;

&quot;Yeah.  Before you got here, he asked me if I had a boyfriend.&quot;

&quot;What did you say?&quot;

&quot;Well I told him it wouldn't be him.&quot;

&quot;Why not?&quot; I asked, a little alarmed.

&quot;Because, he's not my type.&quot;

Wow.

I'd understand if she'd said, &quot;He doesn't speak much English, it'd be awkward.&quot; or &quot;I think he's the creepy kind of chubby chaser.&quot; or even &quot;I thought he was kidding.&quot;

But &quot;He's not my type?&quot;  I was agast.

Apparently, he'd followed up with suggestions that they take a shower together, and perhaps she'd have his babies.

That's classic Give-up.  Maybe she was convinced that it wouldn't work out, which is plausible, but it's not like she couldn't have herself a time.  She's convinced that she doesn't deserve even one night of hot jungle love from this guy, who's obviously into her plushness.  Lame.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just encountered an illustritive example of the give-up girl.</p>
<p>I was helping a female aquaintance move.  She&#8217;s been single for a long time, and not a lesbian to my knowlege, but she was pretty fat by conventional standards, which I&#8217;m guessing made dating harder.</p>
<p>She&#8217;d actually hired movers, so she and I just hung out, watching them pack, and threw a few delicate things into my car.  She indicated one young man among the movers, a 20ish guy from Ecuador.  Young, good looking, in good shape from moving.</p>
<p>&#8220;He was hitting on me.&#8221; she said.</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Yeah.  Before you got here, he asked me if I had a boyfriend.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;What did you say?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Well I told him it wouldn&#8217;t be him.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Why not?&#8221; I asked, a little alarmed.</p>
<p>&#8220;Because, he&#8217;s not my type.&#8221;</p>
<p>Wow.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d understand if she&#8217;d said, &#8220;He doesn&#8217;t speak much English, it&#8217;d be awkward.&#8221; or &#8220;I think he&#8217;s the creepy kind of chubby chaser.&#8221; or even &#8220;I thought he was kidding.&#8221;</p>
<p>But &#8220;He&#8217;s not my type?&#8221;  I was agast.</p>
<p>Apparently, he&#8217;d followed up with suggestions that they take a shower together, and perhaps she&#8217;d have his babies.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s classic Give-up.  Maybe she was convinced that it wouldn&#8217;t work out, which is plausible, but it&#8217;s not like she couldn&#8217;t have herself a time.  She&#8217;s convinced that she doesn&#8217;t deserve even one night of hot jungle love from this guy, who&#8217;s obviously into her plushness.  Lame.
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		<title>by: OiPunk asshole</title>
		<link>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-350</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jun 2006 01:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.hellodamage.com/cali/2006/06/10/more-physics-and-sex/#comment-350</guid>
					<description>well if your having lady problems just do what i do. make your fingers into a v and thrust your tongue into them. melts their panties right off hahaha/why do i have to laught at my own jokes?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well if your having lady problems just do what i do. make your fingers into a v and thrust your tongue into them. melts their panties right off hahaha/why do i have to laught at my own jokes?
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